Within this new beginning to writing comes a new starting point. The development of Self as who I am and what I stand for as Life, My Life, the Principles I Live, and how and why I act and interact as I do. With the aim of taking apart it all and putting back together, that serves myself and all others.
I realized a lot lately about how I got into writing, the Desteni
message, and personal growth. I realize it was from a very limited perspective,
and from a place of never really having ongoing unconditional support. Without
ongoing unconditional support, it is impossible for one to feel safe,
experience trust and express themselves completely freely and openly. From this
point, I am standing within myself, as who I am and need to be in order to
reach the fullness of my potential; not only as sales rep, not only as a
partner, not only as a business person or a leader, not only as who I am in
relationships, but as all the above and more. This is what Life is and what
Life means to be; it cannot be confined to a career, a moment, a situation, a
goal or objective, a person, a group, a specific mission or any one thing,
because in reality, Life is full of all of these things.
Who we are within everything we do is the most important part of Self, Self-Discovery
and Self-Realization. Just because we are part of a group, or practice a
certain routine or principle, it doesn’t mean that we are one and equal to that
group within our individual participation. A group is defined by unity; through
a code of conduct, how we/they conduct themselves or our/their habits and
practices, or principles and intentions. If one associates with one part of a
group but does not build within oneself the core principles of the group and
live them when no one is watching or when they are NOT with that specific
group, then the group message is not really living within them. It is fake,
just for show. It is not real. It is for entertainment purposes only and to get
some feeling of belonging and/or recognition.
Why is it important to define who you are within what you do? Why am I
doing this for myself?
It is simple, because, that is the only way you, me, or anyone will be
able to bring forth their core resonant signature and express it fully and
openly, that allows and facilitates the impact that individual sincerely and
deeply desires to have, and in the way they earnestly express themselves within
the movement, that’ll be the exact solution that the group will need to move
even further, as individuals do this one by one. You cannot copy another’s
resonant signature; you can only try to embody their structural symbols and play
them out as yourself; which can be effective at times. But, no two people will have
the exact same response to a series of a thousand events, so why try and be
what they tell you to be. You cannot. Try, and you’ll fail, and fail miserably.
It’s only when an individual unconditionally accepts himself or herself, can
they now build a base for the extensions of themselves; meaning their
businesses, their relationships, their lifestyle, their children, their
everything. And, at that point, one can truly in Self-Honesty, look at what
they want to change about themselves and do so with a consequence that is best
for them, and therefore best for all.
If everyone did what is best for them, knowing that everything we do has
a ripple effect, we would do what is best for everyone, best for all. It is
only because we have created so much separation and have forgotten who we are,
and have lost touch with physical reality, lost deep in our mind, have we
NEEDED to create the term “Best for All”. It should be automatically common
sense, to do what is ultimately best in a moment, but as humans we’ve created
this manifested machine: our world system, that seeks to use the physical
living being to generate energy and money, to perpetuate itself, and through
that destroy all Life in the process. This is a manifested actualization of our
consciousness.
Within awareness we have the solution to solving all mind and internal
conflict, and therefore external issues we face. The singular point that
remains true within all Life in the point of breath. The very oxygen we
breathe, is found in all four classical elements water, fire, earth, and of
course air.
Let’s take a look at the word: oxygen. Another word for the word ‘ox’ is
‘steer’, and looking at both definitions of ‘steer’; one is a noun: a male domestic bovine
animal that has been castrated and is raised for beef. However, the other
definition is a verb: (of a person) guide or control the movement of (a
vehicle, vessel, or aircraft), for example by turning a wheel or operating a
rudder. The vessel I am making a connection to in ‘ox’ of ‘oxygen’ is the human
body, it is being steered by what we breathe in.
Now let’s look at ‘y’ in ‘oxygen’. A definition of ‘y’ is: “a native
English suffix of adjectives meaning “characterized by or inclined to” the
substance or action of the word or stem to which the suffix is attached: juicy;
grouchy; rumbly; dreamy. Sometimes used to mean “allowing, fostering, or
bringing about” the specified action: sippy.” The key within that I got is:
“allowing, fostering, or bringing about”. What we experience on an in breath,
vibrates, resonates, produces and brings about that which is present within us
through stimulus. It is up to us to take responsibility for what we are
bringing about, accepting and allowing, and to direct that with purpose.
And lastly, ‘gen’ in ‘oxygen’. ‘Gen’ according to Googles dictionary (which
the definitions are from Oxford) can also mean as a noun: “information”, as a
verb: “find out about”, or also be a short form of the word “generation”.
Within each breath, by the end of it, we process a set of information, we have
an opportunity to find out about who we are within it. In the moment of
breathing in oxygen, and the subtle gap between each breath, followed by the next
breath, we integrate what we process, good or bad, right or wrong, and that
leads to the next generation of breath (the following breaths we take). This is
why it is important to breathe with awareness because all of our breaths are
directing who we are within our lives, and to not be aware of what we are
creating as who we are is irresponsible.
We must seize the opportunity of breath, of Life, and direct ourselves
willingly within principle to create the present and future that is congruent
and harmonious for all that is Life.
With all of this said, I have taken it upon myself to use process and
the tools I have available to support Self. Not just looking at the “things” I
want in life and pushing myself to use process to support me in “getting” them;
but to honestly and genuinely support myself and others to become Equal to and
One with what Life Really IS.
Check out these two videos on the earth breathing. Pretty awesome.
Best,
Kian
