Day 9: Structure and Discipline = Freedom

I remember hearing this phrase ‘structure and discipline equals freedom’. It is very true when breaking down what it means to guide oneself by applying structure and discipline, then leading to self-mastery. Everyone needs a structure to guide ourselves into, and everyone initially needs the discipline to follow it, with the hope (meaning expectation and desire) of achieving more internal and external freedom, and the only freedom is to choose that which is best for everyone and everything here, without allowing personal limitations in perspective to cause us to choose otherwise.

Without structure nothing would exist. Without self-discipline, you never teach yourself, without being a disciple, you never learn. And without ever learning, you never become a master (having or showing very great skill or proficiency), of yourself, the skill, the habit. In other words, being and becoming self-competent, being the personal directive principle of yourself, and using that to master real life skills and things that are useful.

I have no real structure other than the fact that I brush my teeth daily, I use TechnoTutor daily (even if it’s just for a moment), I write regularly – but not every day, I eat everyday – but not at scheduled times or a set amount of meals or food each day. I am doing interviews and presentations almost weekly, I’ll miss a week here and there due to changes we are making on the interview side of things or I just do not book a presentation that week on the presentation side of things, but most weeks I’ll do interviews and presentations.

If I really look at it, this business, my life, any business really, any child, any relationship, anything, it won’t be developed passively – it would die before that, especially in the beginning phases.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fail in planning and creating, following and implementing a solid, ruthless, relentless structure for myself to build a solid foundation of self-trust and to build that in others through the world buy sharing myself and my process with them. In this I would be creating some type of structured routine where I can keep myself accountable and where I use TT, write self-forgiveness, I study information and have fun, I read, I focus a dedicated period of time to reach out to people to build my business (focus on and grow my 20, 6, or 1), I follow up with people, present to them, and close them.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not trust the process, as I have not yet trusted myself to walk it effectively and consistently to take apart my own fears and limitations, and to build my understanding of the world and how reality works, and do so by applying a basic structure to myself and my day, week, month, quarter and year, just like a company would for their managers, and workers, and me being the owner of myself, where I need to do ‘the work’, manage things, and have the vision of a leader and owner all at the same time.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that if I follow someone as a disciple now, their proven method or system, I fear that I will be a follower forever and a slave forever, as within my mind I try to maintain this high-ground where I don’t need anyone and I can do it all on my own and figure it out on my own. Not trusting that I will be able to see the flaws, outpoints and mistakes, so I can perfect the process and that’s where I create it as my own, pronouncing my resonant signature of personal responsibility that I’ve developed that’ll attract a certain group to come into my life longer term, those who want to change, and propel us where we change together in our process, where we can then implement solutions to change this world for what is best.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see how by not having structure and the discipline to follow it initially, is self abuse, when I have created that structure to support myself in building consistency and leveling up within self-trust and my process, and using all of that to support others and supporting others through building my business and sharing the tools of change I have and am using for myself to change for real.

 

Day 8: Things Aren’t Moving Fast Enough!

 

I have felt like I have been in a stuck pattern for a few months now. Although things around me are moving and happening, within my self-honesty I have notice I am NOT moving myself equal to the speed I am capable of performing at with constancy, consistency and sustainability. Within this moment if I were to die, I would feel regret, as right now in my life, I am trying to rush everyone and everything else, but am not fulfilling my personal responsibility within my role in my life by not do everything I can possibly do to make myself better, and make the world a better place.

I have come to a strong realization through speaking with those close to me, that my own objection is the one I’ll keep getting. Or said in other words ‘the objection I keep getting, is the one I have’.

Now I am in the place and position to do, do and do; live, live and live, be here, and trust, as I now don’t live with anyone, I don’t work anymore at the laundry business I used to own having sold it a couple of months ago, and now is go time. No one to take care of, no one to cater for, but myself. Instead of this being a punishment, it should be a freedom to explore right now. A freedom to see, who I really am, what I can accomplish, and how many fears, limitations, and challenges can I overcome and walk through in this period of time, which will NOT last forever, or very long at all.

I have been waiting on a few big things to come through, mainly 3 that come to mind. Firstly, my partners travel visa application to get approved. Secondly, a huge amount of money to come through for a deal that was done. And thirdly, a remortgage to pull through as well.

And really the biggest thing that “I am waiting on” is My-Self to build my business effectively and consistently. All of the other stuff is really of no concern with this one point being solved, because they all will revolve around this one point of how effective I am and can become. I also just realized that these other things are all just distractions to focus on as they are beyond my control at this point, I’ve done everything I can do.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to become impatient thinking “Things aren’t moving fast enough”, within that phrase blaming the world, outside reality, and others for things not moving fast enough in my life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear things not moving as fast as I would like and imagine in my mind, where I have set myself up for failure by projecting how reality should line up with my personal self-interest not realizing that things take time to manifest in physical reality, and that it is important and best to consider all in each move, decision and project.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to blame others, as well as blame myself for the results and consequences I am experiencing now vs stepping up within myself and stepping out to walk through and correct and change what caused all of this in the first place.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to not see how ‘I Am Not Moving Fast Enough’, and therefore projecting that onto reality thinking ‘these things, people, situations are not moving fast enough’, knowing that as I am moving at the speed of the physical, or breath, I wouldn’t not feel that way, as I am present Here while moving with and through breath.

I commit myself to using breath to equalizing the connection of Me to reality, what is Here.

Day 7: Redefining Loud

I remember when hearing the school bell at school, I would be happy for the next class, recess or lunch or even for school to end. On the opposite I would be anxious, sad, or fearful to hear the bell ring when class would be starting, because I knew I had to do work and things I didn’t enjoy in some classes.

Throughout my life I have been a quiet person relatively speaking, my two brothers were always very loud and vocal. I was never that way unless I really wanted something. I see that when my mother would yell and scream at us, I would go into a shock, a fright, and dreadful fear, then she would sometimes hit us, to lock the pain, fear and internal suffering. This caused me to resent loud things, loud noises, loud sounds, loud people. It is not so much that the loud things are “bad” as I mentally labelled it, it is really that intention or starting point of THAT sound. I have used loud sound to persuade and get what I want and what was best for a group – that is good thing, that is equal to God which is Good, and God and Good are being in accordance with what is physically Here. That IS the method, road map, and code of conduct to live what is best for all life.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear loud things, loud noises, loud people, and loud bells, alarms, and loud sounds.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to fear loud sounds because I associate that with the memory of my mother yelling, yelling at me, my dad, my brothers, and which at times led to physically beating me or some type of punishment; mentally, emotionally or physically.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to suppress my own voice because I have a fear of being too loud.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to believe that loud is bad, or another way of saying it is loud equals bad.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to ignore, suppress, and refuse to acknowledge the ways that loud is actually really good and best, in speaking up and speaking out, getting someone to hear you clearly especially if there is noise in the room or if they are far away, or for any sound to get someone’s attention in the best way.

I forgive myself for not living the word loud.

I forgive myself for fearing to be loud and obnoxious because I think that people will judge me as rude, evil, bad and controlling.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to think that loud means rude, evil, bad and controlling.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge myself as rude, evil, bad and controlling when I act loud or do something that is loud, because I feel I am disturbing others.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to judge others as bad, evil, rude, and controlling when they are loud in their voice, or did something that caused a loud noise as I feel they are disturbing me in my life, my day. Within that I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to hold onto this memory of my mom loudly interrupting me when I was playing and having fun – when playing soccer in the driveway or playing video games inside, then associating her loud voice and volume with no more fun, no more play, reacting in fear each time hearing her loud voice whether it was for something good or something bad, or something neutral she wanted to communicate.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to try and hide as a quite person/personality out of the fear of not wanting to be loud.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to see loud as equalling gaudy, ignorant, show off, or annoying idiot, that was programmed into me from the media and my environment growing up.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to go into reaction and become the shy, quiet, serene, peaceful, silent monk type-a-guy, all out of fear of being loud, and judging loudness.

I forgive myself for now allowing myself to be as loud as I need to be.

I realize that I need to be loud in order to communicate a clear message at many times.

I realize that I associated loud to mean something bad happened or was going to happen, because of the memories of my mother yelling as a child and the school bell ringing as I didn't want to be in class to be in class in the first place as a young kid most of the time, and the school bell resembled schooling to me. I didn't like the part of sitting down and being forced to learn something. I just wanted to play and hang out with the friends I met at school, during recess or after school.

I realize that I need to be loud to influence many people at a given time and use loudness to “take up space” in a room or conversation or meeting, as loud means volume, not only in the up and down of sound, but also volume means space 3 dimensionally, and living loudness through volume in any and all dimensions of who I am and in life. Loud: “Characterized by or producing sound of great volume or intensity”, and using intensity to take up space and time also.

I realize that my posture, composure, body language, dress, look, house, car, style, presence, resonance NEEDS to live the word loud if I am going to be able to accomplish what I need to do in order to change the system within my lifetime.

I realize is it okay and best for all to be loud within self-honesty.

I realize that loud is good. Loud is god. Loud is physical.

I realize that I am loud.

I realize that I have suppressed being loud out of a fear of judgment, fearing others will judge me for being loud, but in reality these have been my own judgments that I have now forgiven myself for, and any and all judgments that come up in relation to the word loud, I can now see and identify it as being my own projections where I am limiting myself through separation of what ‘loud’ really is and means.

I realize that ‘loud’ means characterized by or producing sound of great volume or intensity, and that in order for more people to here me, I must become louder. The louder I am, the more people can hear me mathematically speaking.

When and as I see myself wanting to and trying to be quiet to get a feeling of security, or go into a personality or character that is not Self-Willed, I stop and I breathe. I realize in that moment I have come from inferiority, insecurity and fear, where I have in the past gone into suppression, and same moment when it next comes up, I direct myself to Will myself to express myself LOUDLY and CLEARLY instead of mumbling, fumbling and bumbling my words and mouth, so the OTHER PERSON gets and hears my message fully, completely and clearly.

I realize that I caused myself to become a quiet person out of reaction, and I realize I can change it because these beliefs have limited me greatly in expressing myself and pursuing Life – that which is best for all, as well as in sales, basic communication, persuasion, building my business, building my relationships, and more.

I realize if it is to be, it is up to me, to speak up, speak out, and claim, grasp, attain, and achieve the attention I deserve, by putting attention on myself and my process first, walking the point thoroughly and completely even if it takes days, weeks, months, or years, until I am equal to my potential in a word or point.

I commit myself to living the word loud.

I commit myself to producing the character within me of being loud, producing great volume or intensity, using the starting point of convincing, persuading and influencing people to join the movements that I am working with so we create a world where everyone has their basic needs met, and no more suffering exists. I commit myself to sharing GIN, Desteni, TechnoTutor and Self-Perfected in the loudest ways possible to attract the most attention possible to get the most amount of people possible walking their Self-Perfection process.

I commit myself to looking at any major reoccurring thoughts, feelings, emotions and backchat that comes as a Loud point to look at, work on, and clear. Then after that, look at how I can use my body, my resonance, my vocal cords, and what I know of and also looking at what I can learn to move to the next phase and level in “Loud-ing” this message of Self-Perfection all over the planet. Then doing it through my words as the living word, and implement systems that automate this process or processes.

I commit myself to being loud in every breath, seeing that the volume of my Self, my resonance, my life will determine how loud I can be in the world – which will be equal to my influence in the world.

I commit myself to letting go of all fear that comes up around being loud and all self-judgment around loud, loudness, loud activities, loud talking, lecturing, or laughing, loud signing or dancing, or loud ways of expressing myself, and letting go of any judgments I have of others being loud, as I know it is coming from my own fears and insecurities.

I commit myself to becoming louder and louder every year, and over every period of time, where I move into and as loudness, with a loud and high volume of sound and mass, where I move high volumes of people and money in the direction and into the presence of Life itself through who I am and my example, and into systems that support all life within oneness and equality.

I commit myself to becoming the epitome of Loud as I know with certainty this, and this alone, has been one of my greatest fears and points of resistance, where, when and as I am loud, I cannot hide anything, I am fully exposed and open to the public, open to attack, open to the world, on the spotlight, and that is where I must stand within equality and oneness with life, where I tip the scales from evil to live, and do so within my lifetime. And if I fail, set up the next generation to do so within their lifetime.

I commit myself to fearlessly living loud.